The Frame : Judgment Imposed

We all have encountered  these type of situations in life where our or someone's decided parameters like a pre-acquired mindset cause some serious disasters around them that's what a frame is, a gradually acquired mindset or point of view towards someone, so what's wrong with that let's find it out.

So a frame well, there is nothing Bad about having a mindset that's natural everything influences our mind in one or the other way and this slow process of gathering and summarizing thoughts ultimately leads to development of these frames and its totally fine as it's all part of the life things are just meant to go like that but when these things start getting their roots deepened these frames become more and more rigid over time and that's where it cause problems.

As, we've discussed what a frame is now let's see how actually it destroys things around once it gets rigid well the biggest problem is that once we have a set criteria we start ignoring changes and just examine everything on that frame leaving no scope of improvement {actually improvements are there but you loose the ability to see it} ok let's make it simple dive back in your past and check your memories of a big blunder you made that everyone came to know. How were the people judging you after that??? see there was nothing so serious but it changed so many point of views about you and now just take one more  step ahead and imagine what if those faces always looked at you the way they did that time...... yes it's horrible specially when  you know there is nothing like that it was just a one time carelessness or some other legit reason for it well that doesn't matters anymore as you can't explain yourself actually no one give you time enough to explain before framing you and from now you will be seen through it.

That's it well if you posses these framing superpowers, then it's a chance you did hurt someone at some point just the way you were by them (remember?)  it's very simple to have these frames because it doesn't requires any special thing in you. But to break them is quite difficult, before framing someone just try to see the efforts of someone silently struggling to explain you.............someone begging your attention to all those good things he/she did instead of your focus to only one stupid mistake of his/her.

We don't have the right to be someone's critique until we are not our's Honestly just having a flexible mindset might have changed someone's world but it really doesn't exists anymore.......

Forcing everyone to wear a mask cause if you reveal your real side u know very well many of the faces around you will fade away as if they were never there just because this side of  yours which they saw doesn't fits in their FRAMES......................................................